Rejecting or not owning...continuing on accepting our duality

You can only begin the mending process in this life, when you begin the truth process in this life. Because you should only speak of others truth, when you are willing to speak your self truth (I think Virginia Wolf spoke this, my paraphrase). For our unwillingness to do start with self, many times result in outcomes and consequences no one wants to face. Yet it is our destination, when we become the person we are not, to please people who are disingenuous to live a struggling position. The only way to a peace  of mind  and decreasing fear is walking the path of discovery with the one of desire for authenticity. This requires us to accept the duality of our person. Then, we find. see, and accept our truth, from self and others... Luke 23:40-43